If you are inclined to express yourself in the written word like a poet or a novelist or whatever, you will notice it may be difficult to get down on paper the opening thoughts. This is a very common dilemma when it comes to starting almost any form of communication. I can go back seemingly a century ago when I began to write my wedding vows. There was so much to say, but getting it down in order was a task. After that, the process of selecting wedding decorations dwarfed the difficulty of the vow writing. We changed themes and color schemes to every choice in the rainbow before we settled on black and white, our original choice.